Weekday Weddings vs. Weekend Weddings – Which Is Better?

It’s not simply a logistical decision, whether you choose a quiet weekday or a joyful weekend celebration, there many factors behind the decision.  

Weekday weddings are becoming more popular, while weekend weddings remain the traditional favorite.

A Weekday Wedding

Venues and vendors often charge significantly less during the week, couples are able to steward their finances.  Also, there’s a greater choice of venues.  

A weekday wedding creates a greater chance of guests being unable to attend, as it does require a day off from work or more if the wedding venue requires traveling.  

The engaged couple should be understanding if they receive regrets.  The rule, “if they wanted to be there they would be”, isn’t necessarily fair in this case. It may be your guest can’t arrange the time off or arrange babysitting if that is required.  Missing a day of work or two (if an overnight stay is required) could also be an issue for some.

A Weekend Wedding

Weekend weddings make it easier for loved ones to gather, travel, and linger, creating fuller rooms, longer dances, and more shared laughter. For couples with large families or many out-of-town guests, weekends allow loved ones to show up with less stress and more presence.

Which Day Is Right for You?

After addressing the pros and cons, you should select the day that aligns best with your values, your family, your budget, and your peace. 

The most important thing is not the day, it’s the covenant you are entering.

1 Peter 3:8 (ESV)