From soda fountains of the past to today’s coffee chains, places where we gather over drinks have always been more than about taste. How we sit, talk, wait, and connect says a great deal and is very comforting.

The places we gather and the people we meet help shape us. When we choose presence over pace, kindness over convenience, and connection over distraction, we reflect values that never go out of style.

Sometimes the sweetest lessons aren’t found in the drink itself, but  in the way we take time to share it.

The Soda Fountain: Presence Over Productivity

The old soda fountain encouraged people to slow down. Drinks were made by hand, conversations unfolded naturally, and no one felt rushed to move on.  Children perched beside grandparents, teens shared laughter, and neighbors lingered simply because there was time to do so.

In many ways, soda fountains reflected a value we don’t talk about often anymore.   There were no screens  pulling attention away, no urgency to multitask. People showed up for one another, even in small moments.

Soda fountains remind us that hospitality matters. That listening matters. That taking a few extra minutes to talk, smile, and acknowledge someone can change the tone of a day.

They echo a value deeply rooted in faith: loving others through simple acts of attention.

“Be still, and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46:10, NIV)

Coffee Chains: Speed & Consistency

Today’s coffee chains reflect a different reality.  Whatever location, you can usually get the same order.

Specialty drinks can be very costly once extras are added.  However, even a plain cup of coffee (which really does not cost much to make) is expensive.

The emphasis is on speed, not lingering and certainly does not encourage  conversation.  The staff rotates frequently, and interactions are often brief. 

Sometimes weariness comes not from work itself, but from never slowing down.

“Let us not become weary in doing good.” (Galatians 6:9, NIV)

Maybe the best gathering places are local small coffee cafes or bakeries that have a little bit of both worlds, modern convenience with old-fashioned warmth.  

A place where there’s cozy appealing tables and chairs that encourage conversations and pleasant surroundings.  A place where you don’t feel rushed, can sit with a friend and enjoy decorated walls or memorabilia.  

Remember To Enjoy….

The goal isn’t to reject modern life, but to reclaim its heart. We can enjoy our coffee while choosing to be more present. We can put our phones down, look someone in the eye, and offer patience instead of hurry. 

You think you’re giving by spending time with others, but you’re really receiving.  

“Above all, love each other deeply.” (1 Peter 4:8, NIV)